State of the Dragon
In the midst of the Chaos that has been my life and work of late, I have been doing some heavy thinking, processing, and evaluating. This kinky journey of mine takes some interesting twists and...
View ArticleWW & SSS: Switching It Up
As I mentioned yesterday, I’m starting to identify as switch. It’s been an interesting transformation and often reluctant. I had started by switching back and forth with Rider depending on the mood...
View ArticleFurther Musings On The Journey
When I first began to explore this path, it was through reading only. One may well laugh, but I started with fan fiction surrounding the world created by the Twilight series of books. While I am not...
View ArticleQuestions on Submission
Molly posed these questions a few days ago and I thought I would take a whack at them… What are the top 5 myths/beliefs you would like to dispel about submissive women? We are not doormats. Though I...
View ArticleTMI Tuesday: Bloggin’ It
BLOGGIN’ IT 1. Do you write/manage another blog? I have a permanent account on LiveJournal that I should really get back to one day and update. I stopped using it so much when I really got into...
View ArticleWW & SSS: Don’t Cum Here!!
Some people take longer to grow up/grow old than others. It’s not the chronological years so much as the attitude and the mileage! It’s also apparently the hormones… Prior to the summer of 2011, I...
View ArticleTMI Tuesday: Making Sacrifices and Resisting Temptation
Making Sacrifices and Resisting Temptation 1. What did you give up for lent? NOTHING!!! Ah, the joys of being a heathen 2. What sexually could you never give up? I’ve had to give up quite a bit, given...
View ArticleWW & SSS: Modern Tower of Babel
The prompt this week has to do with confusion and I can only think how apt that is with a recent crisis GummiPuppe and I experienced. Long ago (so the stories go), the people of the Earth came together...
View ArticleWW & SSS: By Mine Own Hand
It’s been a crazy time at la casa Kazi of late… Taz has been in hospital since last week, the first five days in ICU, and we’ve been preparing for an exchange student from Spain who has just arrived to...
View ArticleTMI Tuesday: Sexual Satisfaction
I Can’t Get No Satisfaction (?!) (that may be the title of a song… and the title of TMI this week… but certainly not my theme!!) 1. From erotica to sex blogs everyone seems to be having intense...
View ArticleWicked Wednesday: Leaving an Impression
When I first came into this lifestyle a little over three years ago, I thought I would be a passive observer, learning by watching others and listening. That didn’t last long…two days I think! and...
View ArticleKOTW: Butt Nuthin’
I own a fair array of plugs, most of which have never seen the inside of me. It seems my eyes are bigger than my rectum… it looks like a good size until I get it home and then it suddenly wasn’t such...
View ArticleState of the Dragon Redux
Happy 4th Blogoversary to me When I started this blog four years ago, I was very new to this lifestyle. All I knew was what I had read about it, though I had joined FetLife a couple of months before...
View ArticleSinful Sunday: New Studio
On Sinful Sunday, it’s all about the image I hope that everyone is enjoying the new year so far! I started out by observing my fourth blogoversary. Now, in response to Molly’s monthly prompt, I want...
View ArticleMacro Madness: The Belt
From light-hearted fun one day to seriousness the next… I’ve been (figuratively) slapped in the face, hard. Would that I could take that sting away, replace it with the sharp, cathartic sting of the...
View ArticleWicked Wednesday: Bound in Boston
I’ve been to plenty of conventions/conferences before, both professionally and as the science fiction & fantasy geek that I am, but this was the first time that I had been to a kink event (other...
View ArticleTFoR-TDoB: Chains versus Rope
I love the weight of chain, the cold hard reality of it as it presses against my skin. It is a convenient form of bondage, immediate. Unyielding, dominating, absolute. Submission is guaranteed. As...
View ArticleSinful Sunday: Rope Dreams
On Sinful Sunday it’s all about the image I’ve been away all week on a much-needed family vacation. It has been by necessity quite vanilla, but one can dream… …especially when surrounded by rope, as...
View ArticleSinful Sunday: Life is Short. Have an Affair!
On Sinful Sunday, it’s all about the image In the wake of the Ashley Madison hack, there have been some interesting discussions in the media about the 37M+ clients of the site, why they would register...
View ArticleSensational September: Getting Good Vibes From Vibration
My earliest positive experience with sensation play (and not even yet being aware of it) was vibration. I reflected on this in an early post on this blog: “One sensation that has always been a true...
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